From childhood we all have been keep hearing that time never stops. The one who came on earth, for sure have to leave one day. But are we really accepting it in a real way? No, Cause if it is true we could have altogether a different person. The one who knows what is right and what is wrong, how to deal with the situations, How to treat people and so on...
Actually we as a human being are very complex kind of creatures. We also don't know on what we think, ok fine even if we are thinking whether that is in right direction, number of confusions and finally a conclusion that whatever we were thinking is not actually required. {Sara syappa hai boss...}
Actually we as a human being are very complex kind of creatures. We also don't know on what we think, ok fine even if we are thinking whether that is in right direction, number of confusions and finally a conclusion that whatever we were thinking is not actually required. {Sara syappa hai boss...}
I somewhere read,"No matter how good you are you can always be replaced", How true. this is applicable to everything. Why not try... But few things are exception to it. Many things can be replaced but not few, such as, your parents. They are creators of your existence. We feel bad for those who left their children on street bare bodied. We curse them, and yes this what they are eligible for. But what will you do for the people who leave their parents.
I am not able to understand the matter. May be I am not that mature to understand and digest the idea of leaving your parents for any reason.
To be very honest I agree one thing openly here, I have number of concepts which are totally different, I am very different than my parents. I am a pampered child in a core Indian way. I fight a lot with my Mom and Dad. Sometimes things are very small. But that fight is not actually A fight. Just our thoughts are different, we cannot deny the capabilities of each other. We have difference in opinions we are one at heart. Yes I accept I am immature when it comes to the matter of parents. You know something, in spite of so many differences and clash of opinions they never treat me harsh. I am still at their home. They have not thrown me out. They still feel that I am their responsibility. They still love me and treat me as they always did. My parents always taught me stand for right. They made me a person I am today, whatever the way may be but I know what they did for me. I will never leave them.
But I was amazed, when one day I visited an Old aged Home.
My small little, sawalon ka bhandar mind spillovered with the thoughts and questions.
Yaar, can anybody please tell me, that what are the greatest differences due to which anybody can leave their parents. I can understand, those who have no kids or family to take care, must take the help of such homes. here they get a new family and people for the remaining days of their lives. But what about them who has family. The one who left them here in such places.
The stories which I came across during my visit shattered me from within.
Can you imagine the reasons?
We have no Son to care about & Daughters are happy at their family.
Other says, We Have Son, But he has his life and family to deal with.
Daughter in law do not wish to stay with, we have difference of opinions.
We do not fit into their family ... and so on.
Mothers cry and speak out the way they want. They take the palloo of their's to the eyes and speak out their hearts. But Father gets hurt in deep within. He cannot express even, cause he take the responsibility that he failed as a father. Being a Man he cannot even cry {In our society women has all the copyrights over it}He just wish to say bye forever to get rid of whatever he is going through.
Man, what is this. it is nothing less than hell. The one who is not loyal to his/her parent, what society expects from them.
The one who thinks Mother is not standard and Father has no style to introduce him in society, what standard they may have.
The son in law or a daughter in law who treat the in laws in this way, what kind of treatment they deserve.
I don't know what to say on it. I can only say that I love my Parents and respect them. Time will come when roll will change.
To be very clear,
I Love my Mother, respect her for everything she did and will keep doing But I Love My Father equally.
An heart wrenching experience which I got taught me a lot and showed the other side of society... But yes at least I am sure that in my life ever, I will Never keep any of my relation on #Ventilator
Friends, Treat your parents keeping your future in mind, your kids observed everything and they will observe till the last breath of your #Parents . {Parents are parents, there's nothing like yours or mine if you are son or daughter in law}
Can't we change our Attitudes, to keep our future lonely free... Can't we try to bring change..Think to step towards #LetsBringChange #Daanparmita
I am not able to understand the matter. May be I am not that mature to understand and digest the idea of leaving your parents for any reason.
To be very honest I agree one thing openly here, I have number of concepts which are totally different, I am very different than my parents. I am a pampered child in a core Indian way. I fight a lot with my Mom and Dad. Sometimes things are very small. But that fight is not actually A fight. Just our thoughts are different, we cannot deny the capabilities of each other. We have difference in opinions we are one at heart. Yes I accept I am immature when it comes to the matter of parents. You know something, in spite of so many differences and clash of opinions they never treat me harsh. I am still at their home. They have not thrown me out. They still feel that I am their responsibility. They still love me and treat me as they always did. My parents always taught me stand for right. They made me a person I am today, whatever the way may be but I know what they did for me. I will never leave them.
But I was amazed, when one day I visited an Old aged Home.
My small little, sawalon ka bhandar mind spillovered with the thoughts and questions.
Yaar, can anybody please tell me, that what are the greatest differences due to which anybody can leave their parents. I can understand, those who have no kids or family to take care, must take the help of such homes. here they get a new family and people for the remaining days of their lives. But what about them who has family. The one who left them here in such places.
The stories which I came across during my visit shattered me from within.
Can you imagine the reasons?
We have no Son to care about & Daughters are happy at their family.
Other says, We Have Son, But he has his life and family to deal with.
Daughter in law do not wish to stay with, we have difference of opinions.
We do not fit into their family ... and so on.
Mothers cry and speak out the way they want. They take the palloo of their's to the eyes and speak out their hearts. But Father gets hurt in deep within. He cannot express even, cause he take the responsibility that he failed as a father. Being a Man he cannot even cry {In our society women has all the copyrights over it}He just wish to say bye forever to get rid of whatever he is going through.
Man, what is this. it is nothing less than hell. The one who is not loyal to his/her parent, what society expects from them.
The one who thinks Mother is not standard and Father has no style to introduce him in society, what standard they may have.
The son in law or a daughter in law who treat the in laws in this way, what kind of treatment they deserve.
I don't know what to say on it. I can only say that I love my Parents and respect them. Time will come when roll will change.
To be very clear,
I Love my Mother, respect her for everything she did and will keep doing But I Love My Father equally.
An heart wrenching experience which I got taught me a lot and showed the other side of society... But yes at least I am sure that in my life ever, I will Never keep any of my relation on #Ventilator
Friends, Treat your parents keeping your future in mind, your kids observed everything and they will observe till the last breath of your #Parents . {Parents are parents, there's nothing like yours or mine if you are son or daughter in law}
Can't we change our Attitudes, to keep our future lonely free... Can't we try to bring change..Think to step towards #LetsBringChange #Daanparmita
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