“We cannot change our past. We cannot change
the fact that people act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The
only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our
attitude” Charles R. Swindoll says it {I just got this quote, I am not aware
who is Charles, but what he said is perfect}. How true, most of us live in the
past at max. I am not exemption to it. It is basically a nature of us.
One thing I do different, maybe I do not
implement on the things but yes what situations teach me I make a note of it,
most times I do write it on my digital piece of paper. At the end of the year I
take a note or say look at it, that how many quotes I have been to deal with.
Every second and every moment is a teacher for life and years passes like it.
Anyways in 2016 also I have learnt a lot, few
may be as similar as of 2015 and 2014 and so on... but thought to elaborate
some very Important from the learning’s of 2016. Here we go…
1.
Look at the mirror, the one you are seeing is
your support and competition too... we are usually obsessed with thought that we are in the world of
competition and we have to win in any situation. Here we lack buddy, because
competition is nothing to deal with other but with self. We have to analyze
self first. If I am not able to cope with change that occurs in me, how can I
expect from self that I am able to deal with others? Whatever out there is
actually starts with me. Even God does nothing for them who do not wish to do
anything for self. Ask yourself first when you enter in any competition.{That
is what one feels}
2.
World is just so beautiful, you just need to
change the perspective. I
am talking about competition at the same time I wish to quote that please stay
away from over confidence and over analysis of self. These things, not only cut
you off from the world but also changes your perspective. Anyhow, we judge
people and situations most of the times {It happens with me…} where actually
requirement is to just change the perspective. Everyone one has a unique
thought and style of dealing with the things.
3.
Sometimes you come to know that your happiness
is in you, you just need to understand yourself. We are running and just running behind so many
things to make ourselves happy. But the fact is it all depends on you. What I
think, do and act makes me happy. I am the one who required deciding the
parameters of Happiness and what I require is to understand self. Isn’t it? We
just run behind things, if we analyze we can get the list, it may be Love,
passion, Career, Happiness and so on… what other wants and what they think is
the parameter of our life. How they should talk to me, what they should do for
me, how they should respect me, how they talk to me, they, they they…. What I
want or How should I be and treat others is on the least priority. Think on it,
it will surely make difference.
4. Every
storm leaves behind something; it's up to us how we are getting ready for the
new Morning. Creation, maintenance,
and destruction are personified as a triad of deities, typically Brahma the
creator, Vishnu the preserver, and Shiva the destroyer/transformer. Do I need
to say more? It is a life cycle, I am hearing it since long, one may say since
I started understanding things. If it is a universal fact then why to get disturbed
while leaving things behind. Every end
has a new beginning. It is upto you how you get it.
5.
Take your mind towards peace before you walk
towards the direction of rest in peace... Finally, People will disturb you, harm you, will do number of things
behind you, but it is again upto you how you deal with it. Why to put your mind
in trouble man, anyhow you will be resting in peace, not today but some day for
sure. You and me both are not aware about that someday. Then why to keep mind
in trouble always. It is better be in peace at present.
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