Blasts of Past...Short Analysis...

What we learn and what we implement is always different. Don't you think that we always do it. Let's for example, one of my friend always curse people for their behaviours. When I tell him get chill he never accepts it. Most of the time I ignore, but fact is the words and attitude he uses is also not good. Even with friends, as we all are friends and know him, we hardly care for it. But in actual sense this attitude is keeping him away from many things. {This will apply to you and me too, we never analyse self that's why we never know how are we with others}. Those who are good or have minds keep silent and safe distance from the people they feel annoyed. Some who are revengeful they surely take their steps. and Some are just tit for tats types.
Anyways, This how our days goes. as we have most of the time discussed and observed that on daily basis you learn something, you just need to understand it. I thought to explore more on the learnings from 2016. Some quotes which I formed from the experiences I had. May be you can also find something. let's discuss it then...

1.   Never make friends cause you may need them, make friends when you accept a deed to be their friend. I have seen number of people who make friends or any relations just because they have in their mind that they may need them in future. Please don’t do this. Any relation that is based on any motives goes nowhere. It spoils things and image of yours. Total disrespect takes place when such thing happens. My buddy, Avi kaka and me always discuss on this and we both are very much of the thought line that such people are of no ethics. You may check it as and when you get in touch with such people.

2.     Think about yourself if you have respect and love for self, this thought gives strength to deal with everything that comes your way… a very simple logic is, one who loves and respects self, knows what limit he can give to others to deal with him and also knows what does respect and love means. He for sure will treat others with the same. A basic criterion is to love and respect self. If you yourself cannot then who else will?

3.     Thinking in right direction leads to success for self and leads to bonding when it is for others…We always think for self, whatever our age may be but we want to be just perfect. This is how we lead towards the success. But actual success comes when someone else gets succeeded just because of our thinking for them, cause that thinking leads to actions which dealt in the results of happiness and trust.

4.     Everyone will become a story at the end... it’s up to you what will be the lines...when I will die, it hardly matters who was I. I will be the story. But there is an option, I will be the story only when I am able to provide content during my life. Every life cannot become a story that is worth becoming a bollywood movie. But at least a life about which your next gen must feel happy if not proud. When anyhow is defined that you will be a story then why not to write in an unique good way… at least a try.

5.     Nobody recognizes you till you get fame... then why to worry while living your life... it hardly matters who criticizes or who appreciates...As we have discussed in earlier points and in last point that life you get is for once and if you live it properly once is enough. We care a lot while living. If I do this what world will say? If I deal with Such things what they will feel? If I Go there What relatives will say? And So many what, why, who, how are there while living life. It does not mean that one should stop living it.

You and Me, we both are part of what we have discussed. Basically point is we can skip ourselves from the points. this is ultimate fact and we have to face it. How we face it is an art which every individual has. But yes noticing the things happening with you is the great help that one can do to self. One must take time to analyse self and come with new Ideas for overcoming the backfoot of past. It nothing related to dwelling in past. It is just like learning from the blasts of past to enjoy the present and get the presents from Santa. Ha ha ha...