Why Me ?...

Ting.. Ting... nope, it is not like I have learned a new language but it was Mobile... Message on Whats app... I usually do not read lengthy messages.. I usually avoid it...

But somehow I never miss Interesting one.. or One can say that most of the time it depends on who sent the message... Anyways the message was interesting and that is what I wish to share.

We are always in the character of  Arjuna, and that we have discussed before. But one more important part of our style of living is, we never wish to accept the things or situations as they comes to us.. many times it happens that we get some bad experiences or the rude behavior of times and situations. Now only one reaction we use to give in this is "Why Me ?"........

Once my 62 year old industrialist friend told me, "Mrunal, I have seen number of problem and hurdles in my life, but after every Why Me... I decided and loudly challenged my life and said Try Me...", 
Actually I use to share some things with very few so, it was like I was just getting lesson for leaving bad things and living life when I left my job... I was totally broken when I got bitter experiences. Only one thought was pocking and disturbing me that I never did wrong or any harsh behavior with anybody.. I tried my level best... But why I get such experiences.. Why People treat you like a.... anyways.. I was hurt cause for me world was so good type.. If I am good to every one then everyone will be... anyways it was my thought..... somehow it is still like that but then also uncle gave a very good advise at that time. 

I came to know that whatever happens to you, it happens for something meaningful..

Life always give you happiness if you really want to have... a faith, trust and confidence is what is always required.

Anyways let me share the message here which I have received on my whatsapp... I must say thanks to Akash, that he sent that to me... Thank you Akash.. I thought to share it with all... and therefore all this to share..

Anyways the story goes like this..

After the Kurukshetra war, Arjuna and Krishna were talking on how how their life was till then.

Arjuna says to Krishna: we followed Dharma our whole life and what did you give us? 14 years of difficulty and War all our life. Duryodana got to enjoy all his life despite he was arrogant and never followed Dharma.

Krishna to Arjuna: It's because man never understand my way of thinking.

Arjuna: what's your way?!! 

Krishna takes Arjuna to a village both dressed like poor brahmins. 

They went to the richest man in the village and asked for shelter that day as it was late and they said they would leave the next day. 

The rich man was so arrogant but still asked them to stay along with cows in the other building.

Arjuna was angry but didn't say a word. 

The next day,Krishna told to rich man " repair the building the cows are in. 

Its too week and might fall anyday now. 

The rich man checked the building and found the same. 

He thanked Krishna and got workers to make it strong that it wont shake a bit for next 100 years.

Krishna then took him to a poor man's hut in that village and asked for shelter that day. 

He not only gave his own hut but also brought some fruits for them that night.

His only means of living was a cow.

Arjuna was happy about the hospitality. 

The next day when everyone were sleeping, Krishna took Arjuna to that cow and touched it with his hands. 

The cow died the next second.

Arjuna and Krishna went back to the palace. 

Arjuna then said to Krishna "This is your way of thinking. ??

Helping that rich man who was arrogant and mean but killing the only means of living of that poor man who was so kind and good"

Krishna replied with a smile :
Its what I said. You never know my ways.
That building I asked that rich man to renovate had hidden treasure from a king. 

If it had fallen, he would have got the treasure which lasts for next hundred years.

Now it stays under the building for the same time.

The fate was that a death must occur in that poor mans life. 

There are just him,his wife, his only son and a cow. I decided to take his cow in place of his family.

Arjuna now got to know the mysterious ways in which god thinks and decided never again to question what he gets in his life...

Now again My thought went on the same to be and not to be form and asked myself that We also have ample of Questions Are we Different from the Character of Arjuna ?? if not then yes I will get my Krishna for sure whenever I require {form may be anything} but I have to keep faith on him, that he has better plans for me so, I must think on what plans he might have when I ask "Why Me??" may be I will also say "Try Me"...