What Have you Learnt ? So... are we ready for #2016 ??!!

Finally 31st Dec. 2015 came.... since the start of this month everyone was asking for it. Anyhow, everybody was interested to know that what am I going to do for the celebration of New Year. But as usual , Mrunal is Mrunal, If I do as everyone does, will I be Mrunal?!! {This I am stating with style and pride here but since my childhood, this statement was usual for my mom and family ;-)}... It's very normal that when someone says No for anything to you, you only want to do that and it applies to all. Anyways it's altogether a separate topic.

Each year than gone have taught us something or the other lesson. We get number of experiences and  we learn from it. This is what expected too. Gone are those days when you hold your past with you and grab it like anything. whether it is good or bad we have to leave it. every passing moment tells us the same and we are doing so. So, if passing moment I mean going year is giving something good or bad, coming year also has ample of things in it to give us. So as 2015 did and 2016 is ready to do... I am sure we all have got or lost our many things in 2015 but are we ready for 2016. I have learned or one may say observed many things due to which I am sort of alert for those things now...This 2015 was mixed year for me too, I got my highest degree till date PhD notified in the month of May and awarded in August. I met maximum good and eminent personalities.  I met my school teachers, My principal from primary school after 20 years {I am a very bad kid that I was not able to make it again}, I wrote articles in News Paper Tarun Bharat, On my Blog I share many things, Got appreciation and lot of good things for which I am really thankful. Whereas, Some unexpected things (Man Ke Viparit) also took place which somewhere shook me. I have seen real faces of few people but anyhow I must say thanks to them also for giving me lessons, I lost my lovely Nani Padmaja aaji and My darling Talkative Parrot Tillu (The only creature who was in love with me, I always said so..), I observed the nature and postures of number of so called professionals. but with whatever I observed in past 365 or 364 days is really worth. I experienced and learned a lot. what I have learned is {Mentioning only 30 out of it :-)} :

1. Your Family is the only thing for which you are living, no material or spiritual entity or feeling can feel the emptiness of your family.
2. The more you run away from the things they grab you harder than before. Don't try to run from the things face it and close it.
3. The more you lie, more you get seperated from yourself.
4. Keeping things good or bad with you never benefit to you. speak up as early as you can.
5. Trust can make difference but first trust your instinct before trusting anybody cause you never know who is there at the bhes of saadhu.
6. Your words make difference, your words are your existence. It talks about your gun and Nirgun. These are the reasons to put in between the people or throw you away from the hearts and eyes of the people.
7. So called society or people may laugh at you at your achievements and prank on it also but it's upto you how you take it.
8. I know and Like CHESS.. but I avoid to play , it takes time.. I am a keen observer, I enjoy it as a spectator & Love to appreciate the Champions ...
9. We must Live, No one knows that whether the option ends in the next moment... or the other part is, an option extends till the end of choice of living.... Let's not scream... Let's not allow your Atma to roam around in Any case .....
10.  Do not look at how others look at you, No need to think about what they think about you, Never take a decision on how they will react.. Just remember one thing.. You are answerable to your parents, your loved ones and yourself.. Rest are just spectators and chit chatters... Rumors and wrong words come from only those who cannot have you or failed to keep hold on you and if you are of same gender then from those who cannot compete with you.
    Rules of life does not depend on others, it is up-to you how you want to accept it. {On your success and their requirement you will find the same mob with you}
    Think on it for sure you will find an answer for many things.
11. I may be harsh, I may Be Arrogant, I may seem rude cause I am a Girl, a Daughter, A Women, Wife, Sister, Friend, unending relations and I can fit in any role but somewhere I am still not me cause I live in a Humans Society.  
12. We must Live, No one knows that whether the option ends in the next moment... or the other part is, an option extends till the end of choice of living.... Let's not scream... Let's not allow your Atma to roam around in Any case
13. Even if You are Hurt, You Need not require anybody to console... if You know how to go back to you.
14. Respect time.. it has everything in it.. otherwise it may cause to a timing of life...
15. Never get so excited. . Even if you are talking to your best buddies.. no one know what limits other person has decoded for you.. just think before you interact with the people. .
16. God sent us as well with talk time.. we never know with how much validity.. use it wisely...
17. Respect time.. not only your's but other's also.. it ads value to both...
18. I did nothing till date.. I am not special and I don't want to be.. just one thing I wish is; at the end of the movie I should not ask myself.. What I did??... hope I will not..
19. There is always something New when you meet your old college friends. . Even after several years.. but you stay the same thats the real punch....
20. It is not necessary that each who says he cares for you does really so... necessary is how you be you, in any condition...
21. We travel... we change vehicles to reach destination... get in touch with co passengers and so on... but they all are their to pass, they are for time being... we cannot hold them with us... so the incidences in life are... or the life is...
22. Take a reference from past... don't reside there... make a present with it and preside ahead...
23. If you think something is poking you just face it... it the only way to clear your mind.. the more you run the more you gather the garbage to disturb yourself.  
24. Everytime letting go may not be a good thing... but.. sometimes it is really awesome. 
25. To calculate and mentain the Balance sheet of your Nature and Life, you need not require to become or hire Chartered Accountant :-)
26.  Thinking is always good but every good thing comes from thinking is not true. Think !!
27. When you are waiting for something then 1 minute will become an hour but if you stop waiting and concentrate on your work then whatever you were waiting for will appear in front of you and you will be surprised.......
28. I don't really know what am I going to get in the next moment.. but I know one thing that if I respect self and give respect to others at least through my normal chat in spite of their positions and levels, I will be generating good energy for me.
    Live in this moment with respect , next moments of dignity will be cared automatically.
29. You have to start... if you wait and seek for help... you will never complete it...
30. Either think or Worry, You can not do both at the same time....

 Everybody may also have their list too. Just look back into 2015 and think what will do in 2016. Will it be the same. If it is then please do not call it new year. And if it is new, then do something new. not big but something small. It will not make any big difference to the world but to you and the whom you are doing. 

Once Again, Every going year gives Learning and Experiences, So does 2015 Did.... 

Every coming year brings hope and New energies So, will 2016... It's up to We... Wish you and your family a Very fruitful 2016. Lots of love to 2015 with thanks. I am ready to welcome 2016.. Are you?