Remembering Vivek Bansod

The morning of November 22nd, 2022, was a huge shock. I felt chills when I got the news about you on the call. Losing you, Dr. Vivek Bansod, has been really tough. It wasn't like one of your usual surprises. It's a deep loss that's hard to accept. Memories keep coming back, and it's still hitting me really hard.

Your laughter was infectious. It could light up the darkest of days. The way you lived music—truly lived it—was inspiring. You weren't just a listener or a singer; you embodied the very essence of music. Our jam sessions were filled with such joy and creativity. You would often shout at me for changing the scale while singing, but even your reprimands were laced with love and humour. It was in those moments that I felt most alive, most connected to you.

Visiting Ujjain became synonymous with visiting you. The anticipation of seeing you, the warmth of your open arms ready to hug and welcome me, was something I always looked forward to. Your funny faces and silly jokes were a testament to your playful spirit. You knew how to make me laugh, how to lift my spirits with just a look or a word.

Listening to my heart’s outpourings without any fear or shyness was a gift you gave me. You created a safe space where I could be my true self, without any pretence or facade. Your understanding and empathy were boundless. It was not like we did not have any difference of opinions but with that we were friends.

Exploring this deeper, I realize how much those moments meant to me. Your presence was a constant source of comfort and joy. You had this incredible ability to make me feel understood and supported. Whether I was sharing my latest achievements or my deepest fears, you listened with an open heart and mind. You motivated me to push through tough times and celebrated my victories as if they were your own.

You always had a way of bringing humor and warmth into every situation. Your joke about celebrating your birthday twice wasn’t just a funny anecdote; it symbolized your ability to connect deeply with everyone around you. For you, life was about building meaningful relationships and making everyone feel special. The “two birthdays” joke was your way of acknowledging the different circles in your life and how you cherished each one uniquely.

You made time for everyone, whether it was your professional acquaintances or your close family and friends. It was as if you had two lives that intertwined seamlessly, and you honored both with equal joy and commitment. This dual celebration (due to other date in docs so for professional) was a testament to your inclusive nature, showing that you valued every connection and relationship deeply.

Now, as we faced another June 17th without you, the memory of your joke brings both a smile and a tear. It reminds me of the countless ways you made our lives richer and more vibrant. Your ability to blend humor with heartfelt connection was something truly special. It’s this blend of logic and emotion that made you such an irreplaceable part of our lives.

Your absence has left a void that no amount of time can fill. I will always miss our talks about music, your programs, Kirtans, management, and HR. I miss sharing my professional struggles and finding solace in your words. Each after Nov. 2022 June 17^th and Nov 22^nd, and every other day, I remember your spirit, your wisdom, and the joy you brought.