128 Days of Observation

Today , after exact 128 days I am somehow encouraged to scribble in the blog. 

Reasons are numerable. But the first and foremost reason is 128 Days of observation.

I am amazed by the concept of taking break. Few days before I mean approximately 145 days before somebody to whom I admire the most told me to take a break.

He told me that challenging yourself is one option but try to understand what you are and world need not require you it runs as it is after you as well , so just take a break and go to yourself.

It was not easy for me to understand that concept. But it worked. Yes it worked... Past 128 Days gave me something that I can Never imagine before.

I know it is going like so I , Me , Myself kind of a concept but I must share before sharing anything else what those 128 Days are mean to me.

We usually decide with the checklists for New Year Resolution and by the the 5th day of Jan we go back to our routines as it is.

I took a call of happiness and freedom. Happiness of being free and freedom of being something that not me.

It is said that one must take a break for self. What I wanted to observe was entirely different than what I actually experienced. 

So my target was 9th May marriage anniversary of my parents {for sure a reason of my existence..} for the experiment of 125 Days with additional 3 days to it. 

This what I came to know...Let's not enter into the details as everything has entirely different story to share...

But can share a few...

1. Very First thing, you are not slave of anybody but to your own thoughts. 

2. No one can stop you if you have decided to do something, whether it is good or bad it's up to you.

3. Nothing stops in your absence 

4. Every closing door has an option to open the other.

5. Your happiness lies with yourself .

6. Taking care of your happiness is your responsibility.

7. Dignity and respect for self is the most important aspect of happiness.

8. One must travel and explore as much as new places are possible. 

9. Reality of thing or place can be far different than the thought you may have before.

10. People get attached to you only if you have an ability to give.

11. Nothing is permanent but the impact lasts for long.

12. Very few relations are worth in life not every person can be considered for long lasting relationships. You have to identify which is important.

13. One must develop the eye for identification of real.

14. There is nothing awesome than peaceful and deep sleep. {One definition of Rest}

15. Health and peaceful mind is the real world.

16. Your empty bank account does not hurt you most than the balance with the constant encounters with insults and dominating behaviors.

17. Most of the time person in a normal cloths sometimes with patches teaches you most than the one dressed in Armani.

18. You need not require to judge anybody in this world, not even yourself.

19. Nothing can done good to you than what you for yourself.

20. Big faces cannot be real but the one who is real can be big. One day you come to know at some point those who are considered as a great who's life we feel,  like what superb it is are the most simple and down earth souls who teaches you the real meaning of greatness.

21. Be you , for that you need not require anything big.