Wrong Person always Teach a Right Lesson of Life...

This is the month of March, we celebrated International women's day. We did salute to all the woman strength that took the nation pride and did great in their lives. Whereas, some jokes and advertisement expressed that each day is a women's day. Some were funny and some were teasing. Anyhow, Day started with a small thought, Is there anything special that a girl wants from her life??. How many of us can clearly answer this?  What happens when she has some expectations from her life ? Do we have any precise explanation?  We see ample of advertisements talk shows, movies and daily soaps and many more based on the life of a girl. Many episodic events are there due which we have seen agitations and protest for the rights of a girl or a women. Did it really work? Enough of all these questions, just one simple query are the girls are really getting what they want or the rights they have.

I visit number of places whenever I get a chance to visit it. I meet number of people. Some of them are really genuine but yes how can we guess in one or two meetings. Anyways it is a different topic. I have many friends as I am from Girls school still I am in touch with maximum of my school friends. Many of them shared various things with me; not only they but the other contacts also shared many things. Everyone has a different struggle in her life; few are truly ok with whatever they are getting in their lives. But every story has something to pinch. Why? When we say everything is neutralizing in society and we are getting all the similar rights and facilities then what is the difference, where is the gap?

I met one of my friends last evening. We discussed various things and during our discussion she told me about one of our common friend. She was with us in our tuition classes when we were in 10th Standard. It was really shocking to know that she lost her mental balance and is fighting with number of disorders. Just to know about her I ask my friend please do share if you have any idea about what had happened to her. This girl was very talented during our schooling and was always in competition with us for scoring marks in various subjects. By the time I came to know that this girl fell deeply in love with the guy and they were very serious about their relationship. Don't know about the guy but this girl was really thinking to take this to the other concrete level. But as usual the guy took a step back and started avoiding her. He was literally interested in all kind of relationships but not a concrete commitment, he was thinking about his parents, family society and so on... I guess there is no need to explain this further. Finally this silly girl lost all her conscious and identity. How one can hurt anybody like this? Don't they think of any ethics or morals while doing such injustice? 

I have seen people talking about respecting their mother a lot and are ready to die for her. Does these people really respect a girl or her emotions too.. sorry but I have doubt. My friend is not even able o identify us now. I just thought one thing, and it was very scary.. What if such thing happens to me.. Will I be able to forgive a person who will play with my emotions or will I be able to forgive myself to deal with such a wrong decision or a person. My goodness it is really tough to give a thought on it but have seen various such cases and what to say on it? Only they may express it better those who faced it ?

We see people stand in front of Devi Maa with a tears of respect and emotion in their eyes. But we have even seen that how people treat their wives, daughters or daughter in laws etc.. in real life. Why this then? Honestly speaking such people should not even eligible to stand out of the temples of Devi Maa or Mother merry… sorry getting too harsh but what to do its really… anyways..Why a widow cannot smile and laugh? Why people pin point her when she start living her life? There are many things many stories to share and discuss.

If society is changed, then why only girls are facing such things? I accept that there are few girls who are also real culprits. but are these girls are parameters to treat other. We have seen number of Rape cases and harassment cases in news papers and channels but who is the main culprit then? Obviously the answer will be a girl, her cloths, her style of walking, talking, her social life, and her footprints on social networks etc etc... Isn’t it?? Oh sorry it means the main problem is a girl. Why to curse anybody else then. If she loves someone and faces dishonesty, abusing words, harsh behavior or anything else then yes she is the culprit. If she marries someone and give her whole and soul to the guy and his family and then if she faces harassment or any other problem even sometimes covered with high profiled life and layers of fake respect and happiness etc, she is the problem she is a culprit. 

So only a female is a culprit, whether she is a little girl or a grown up lady, a women. Even after all this, Just a small hope that someday or other this will defiantly change. And only a female a girl will change it. She can face number of wrong things in her life but then also she can stand for her. She will face ample of wrong people in her life but she will get right lessons from them. She will survive with a broken heart sometime but she is capable to break all emotional barriers. Let her start living she will leave everything behind. Let her deal with wrong persons and it is said, "Wrong Person always Teach a Right Lesson of Life"