This is
the month of March, we celebrated International women's day. We did salute to
all the woman strength that took the nation pride and did great in their lives.
Whereas, some jokes and advertisement expressed that each day is a women's day.
Some were funny and some were teasing. Anyhow, Day started with a small
thought, Is there anything special that a girl wants from her life??. How
many of us can clearly answer this? What happens when she has some
expectations from her life ? Do we have any precise explanation? We see
ample of advertisements talk shows, movies and daily soaps and many more based
on the life of a girl. Many episodic events are there due which we have seen
agitations and protest for the rights of a girl or a women. Did it really work?
Enough of all these questions, just one simple query are the girls are really
getting what they want or the rights they have.
I visit
number of places whenever I get a chance to visit it. I meet number of people. Some
of them are really genuine but yes how can we guess in one or two meetings. Anyways
it is a different topic. I have many friends as I am from Girls school still I
am in touch with maximum of my school friends. Many of them shared various
things with me; not only they but the other contacts also shared many things.
Everyone has a different struggle in her life; few are truly ok with whatever
they are getting in their lives. But every story has something to pinch. Why? When
we say everything is neutralizing in society and we are getting all the similar
rights and facilities then what is the difference, where is the gap?
I met
one of my friends last evening. We discussed various things and during our
discussion she told me about one of our common friend. She was with us in our
tuition classes when we were in 10th Standard. It was really shocking to know
that she lost her mental balance and is fighting with number of disorders. Just
to know about her I ask my friend please do share if you have any idea about
what had happened to her. This girl was very talented during our schooling and
was always in competition with us for scoring marks in various subjects. By the
time I came to know that this girl fell deeply in love with the guy and they
were very serious about their relationship. Don't know about the guy but this
girl was really thinking to take this to the other concrete level. But as usual
the guy took a step back and started avoiding her. He was literally interested
in all kind of relationships but not a concrete commitment, he was thinking
about his parents, family society and so on... I guess there is no need to explain
this further. Finally this silly girl lost all her conscious and identity. How
one can hurt anybody like this? Don't they think of any ethics or morals while
doing such injustice?
I have
seen people talking about respecting their mother a lot and are ready to die
for her. Does these people really respect a girl or her emotions too.. sorry but
I have doubt. My friend is not even able o identify us now. I just thought one
thing, and it was very scary.. What if such thing happens to me.. Will I be
able to forgive a person who will play with my emotions or will I be able to forgive
myself to deal with such a wrong decision or a person. My goodness it is really
tough to give a thought on it but have seen various such cases and what to say
on it? Only they may express it better those who faced it ?
We see
people stand in front of Devi Maa with a tears of respect and emotion in their
eyes. But we have even seen that how people treat their wives, daughters or
daughter in laws etc.. in real life. Why this then? Honestly speaking such
people should not even eligible to stand out of the temples of Devi Maa or
Mother merry… sorry getting too harsh but what to do its really… anyways..Why a
widow cannot smile and laugh? Why people pin point her when she start living
her life? There are many things many stories to share and discuss.
If
society is changed, then why only girls are facing such things? I accept that
there are few girls who are also real culprits. but are these girls are
parameters to treat other. We have seen number of Rape cases and harassment
cases in news papers and channels but who is the main culprit then? Obviously
the answer will be a girl, her cloths, her style of walking, talking, her
social life, and her footprints on social networks etc etc... Isn’t it?? Oh
sorry it means the main problem is a girl. Why to curse anybody else then. If she
loves someone and faces dishonesty, abusing words, harsh behavior or anything
else then yes she is the culprit. If she marries someone and give her whole and
soul to the guy and his family and then if she faces harassment or any other
problem even sometimes covered with high profiled life and layers of fake
respect and happiness etc, she is the problem she is a culprit.
So only
a female is a culprit, whether she is a little girl or a grown up lady, a
women. Even after all this, Just a small hope that someday or other this will
defiantly change. And only a female a girl will change it. She can face number
of wrong things in her life but then also she can stand for her. She will face
ample of wrong people in her life but she will get right lessons from them. She
will survive with a broken heart sometime but she is capable to break all
emotional barriers. Let her start living she will leave everything behind. Let
her deal with wrong persons and it is said, "Wrong Person always Teach a
Right Lesson of Life"
