A #Category Called #Women...

There are so many schemes and provisions are made available for the upliftment of women in society. But still when we talk about women serving to nation through any sector, we still require to think again. Hats off to them who are on the top with their Hard work, abilities, willpower and courage. But few points are still left somewhere. 

Recently I had a discussion with a group of a girls. The point came in front, really forced me to think on it.

We talk about reservations and exemptions to be given for uplifting the categories. No issues in it. But women are still taking a back when it comes to the motivation for participating in or appearing for any competitive exam. {Not #Mandir, #Madjid or #Dargah}

UPSC and SSC has given exception to women regarding fees for the exams. But how many are Interested in or can participate in specifically these exams. {Are they willing for this..or is the only option}

Still women irrespective of category and financial conditions, faces ample of problems for such things. Still early age marriages takes place. Anyway.... now question arises, How many from the Category called Women appear for the competitive exams when they require to pay for it and not able able to get succeed in first attempt. 

I have seen girls who really want to appear for such exams but cannot take a call because they are not able to pay as minimum as 500/- Rs for appearing. even if they manage to but in case they fail to clear {Percentage of passing and other parameters} they get such a DE-motivation that they never dare to spare any savings. Case again becomes complicated and worth thinking when they are married. 

"Women is women" with this it is already separated in one category irrespective of caste and Creed. then why not same facilities to all. {very few are there in general category who treat women as equal as men irrespective of financial conditions}. Condition of women is The Same in all so called categories.

It is not like fighting for that the reservations are to be given to women, but it is all about concept of uplifting category, empowering a class and so on. 

If anyone really want to make some difference then just a small survey is required on this topic. Rest decisions can be taken later.

#What #Women #Really #Want ?

After a gap of so many days I was meeting my friend Yesterday. It made us irritated and Annoying when we landed on discussing irrelevant and not required topics of #Bhumata #Brigade and their activities after the arrival of news again. Since 26th Jan we were actually avoiding...
Come on #Yaar there are ample of topics in this world on which we really require to think and work. Then why to deal with these pointless subjects{Anyhow I am dealing by writing all this...}.
Let's go point wise then, why me and my friend think that whatever these ladies are doing are not worth spending their energies....

How many of us , Specially ladies are in #Love with #Lord #Shani {We consider him Lord even if we know it is counted as a #Planet}? : Being an Indian {Not only Hindu Religion, I guess..} we always accepted the point that Lord Shani is a lord with anger and people always tried to please him with all #Puja's and #Rituals. Rather we observed that no one wants to deal with him due to his fear of #SadeSati {Seven and a half year of misfortune..} then why to run behind him. Let the men deal with him.{At least some who believe...}. and it is a very rare case that women asks for something to him. #Krishna and other #Bhagwana are their to fall in Love [We are hearing #Kanha's stories on this since childhood from #Radha to #Meera]...Never heard any Love story or such for #Lord #Shani. Then why not to leave him alone?

#Protest for entering in temple is not the only thing to do in this world. : Does really it matters that you are not allowed to enter in temple or only you are not allowed to enter? see boss, banning some community or some religion or cast to enter is not good. We all are against for the concepts such as #Harijan or #Achuta or any such ... If these concepts are not there and the tradition which is followed since too long never rubbed off, then why to? {And it's not like they have implemented this rule recently..}This will never secure any kind of right for anybody I guess..

Deal with the actually required concepts rather than entering in Temples or #Dargas : Why to hurt the religious sentiments of anybody and getting into trouble? Honestly speaking some things suits as it is since years and years ago. Research to explore the reasons can take place but why to force to grab the place? again it hardly makes sense.

Number of problems are there to which women deals and requires somebody to stand for. :  Is this really required to agitate or protest to enter in Temple. Is this the only remaining requirement of today's women.If yes then OK.

It is an Immature act which affects the social image of Women across the world : Just think the various areas How?

Respect of the women community gets hurt : With such senseless protests and agitations respect for the entire women community gets hurt. How embarrassing it is when you yourself know that what whatever these women are doing is actually not required. When people take prank you feel that why we being victimized even if we do not think on so.  Sometime there is a different enjoyment in the restrictions of our ancestors. 

If any Organization is formed for the Betterment of women then Points we feel that requires protest, agitations for uplift the souls of women are....

1. Education is still a point of concern for the women today.
2. In spite of entering in to temple, Entering in the major areas of decision making is required
3. Protest for Shani Temple is not that Important as Protesting to save Girl Child
4. Wearing western cloths in temple is not that important than saving women from being naked by the rapists
5. Fighting for the basic livelihood rights of women and girl child is more important than fighting and getting insulted in front of any temple.
6. Raising voice for unnecessary arguments hardly makes any difference where raising voice for the pending cases for the rights and justice for women is important.
7. Doing Puja and archana in the Shani temple with protest is nothing in front of helping abandoned, Helpless, diseased and old women on road.
8. Basic rights and dignity of women forced to be a #sex-worker   
9. Education of the girl child born to these sex-workers and their security and dignity
10. Raising the matters related to the violence is much important than creating violence for no reason
11. Accepting something and implementing to enhance the soul and importance of women is much required than accepting false tricks to gain popularity....

Whatever I expressed here is what I feel, it may appear like I have given judgements and suggestions but not justification...also haven't analyzed situtations, but....

There are number of points which requires attention of the organizations meant to focus on women causes.

Various kinds of assaults and number of issues.... If all these got eliminated then fighting for entering in temple and dargah is somewhere ok.

Honestly speaking, just move out.. not required to visit the world but just India... you will find number of issues to deal with. 

What will a women do by entering in temple or dargah after such fights if she is not happy at her personal front. and will such fights brings respect to the community ? again if Yes.. Then I am ready to accept this point too... 

Just a small request just get at least views and assurance from 25% of the women community over India that they are freed from all the problems they face being women. See boss make life worth and simple. Complicating things for no reasons increases problems not peace.

Let the women find the answers for other gigantic issues and questions... Kya fark padta hai ya aaj tak pada mandir and dargah me kadam rakhne se.. if someone says so, then what's wrong in it? some rules keeps you happy. just take the other side of the coin. Think...#what #women #really #want from the society and world?...