What is a big deal ??....

Today is last day of this month... 6 months of this year passed.. As per my office diary it is 181st day of this year and after this 184 days are left. It means now We have 6 months more with approximate 184 days. Obviously 3 days more than the past 6 months...{Feb. did this...} anyways.. one more thing i came to know about today is, today is the longest day of this year.. total 1 extra second.... can you imagine... he he.. daily we pass 86400 seconds today we have 1 more extra second.. what is a big deal ?? we usually think so.. isn't it... now my deal is simple...

If I am getting 1 extra second for this day then am I thankful to anyone or not... No I am not... Cause I am thinking.. What is a big deal... and it happens in my day to day life as well.. I am not thankful to anyone cause i feel that What is a big deal.. it is as obvious as every single moment... and here I fail... we usually decide many things on the first day of every year, then with passing days we totally forget what we have decided or what we have planned to do... I did the same... I have decided number of things on every auspicious occasions... that this is day on which I Promise myself.....bla bla bla... what next??

In past 6 months from the 1st day of jan 2015.. I also don't remember how may promises i did to Myself.. now what should I do?? Either I can stat remembering the promises or I can Make one more promise that Lets forget all and start a new beginning from this half year... and an unique last day of this half year...{It is like in Hindu Dharma we take lot of Mannat or Navas.. but somehow we fail to fulfill that after our wishes gets fulfilled, then we take a call of one single puja or tantra to come over all...}So, I took new oath on this unique day once again... Lets see for how long I can fulfill it....

Somehow I felt that I have gone through trauma and stress during these last few months and few past recent days it was bit higher,, but after analyzing few things I felt that I was so unfair with me.. World is celebrating 1 single extra second and I have been so unfair that I even didn't thanked for all the good things I have with me... I was running behind all the material things and I was the only person who was allowing others to hurt me.. then why I should blame others.. I face situations like doing good for others and then those others will hate you for no reason and they say this on your face.. Then why I should hate anybody or take the path of the same community {Bade log said ekdum perfect.. Neki kar dariya me daal.. But they forgot 1 thing Jiske liye neki kar rahe ho woh agar wrong no hai to uske thought ko hi dariya me daal de...}I have taken my step now its your turn.. A good last day, 1 more extra second, and 1 more extra moment to think on it... Have a great remaining year ahead....

Leave the past behind and tell the haters that I want to invest my time  for them who love me and to them love them back.. If you hate me then What is a big Deal ??... Carry on...

Why Me ?...

Ting.. Ting... nope, it is not like I have learned a new language but it was Mobile... Message on Whats app... I usually do not read lengthy messages.. I usually avoid it...

But somehow I never miss Interesting one.. or One can say that most of the time it depends on who sent the message... Anyways the message was interesting and that is what I wish to share.

We are always in the character of  Arjuna, and that we have discussed before. But one more important part of our style of living is, we never wish to accept the things or situations as they comes to us.. many times it happens that we get some bad experiences or the rude behavior of times and situations. Now only one reaction we use to give in this is "Why Me ?"........

Once my 62 year old industrialist friend told me, "Mrunal, I have seen number of problem and hurdles in my life, but after every Why Me... I decided and loudly challenged my life and said Try Me...", 
Actually I use to share some things with very few so, it was like I was just getting lesson for leaving bad things and living life when I left my job... I was totally broken when I got bitter experiences. Only one thought was pocking and disturbing me that I never did wrong or any harsh behavior with anybody.. I tried my level best... But why I get such experiences.. Why People treat you like a.... anyways.. I was hurt cause for me world was so good type.. If I am good to every one then everyone will be... anyways it was my thought..... somehow it is still like that but then also uncle gave a very good advise at that time. 

I came to know that whatever happens to you, it happens for something meaningful..

Life always give you happiness if you really want to have... a faith, trust and confidence is what is always required.

Anyways let me share the message here which I have received on my whatsapp... I must say thanks to Akash, that he sent that to me... Thank you Akash.. I thought to share it with all... and therefore all this to share..

Anyways the story goes like this..

After the Kurukshetra war, Arjuna and Krishna were talking on how how their life was till then.

Arjuna says to Krishna: we followed Dharma our whole life and what did you give us? 14 years of difficulty and War all our life. Duryodana got to enjoy all his life despite he was arrogant and never followed Dharma.

Krishna to Arjuna: It's because man never understand my way of thinking.

Arjuna: what's your way?!! 

Krishna takes Arjuna to a village both dressed like poor brahmins. 

They went to the richest man in the village and asked for shelter that day as it was late and they said they would leave the next day. 

The rich man was so arrogant but still asked them to stay along with cows in the other building.

Arjuna was angry but didn't say a word. 

The next day,Krishna told to rich man " repair the building the cows are in. 

Its too week and might fall anyday now. 

The rich man checked the building and found the same. 

He thanked Krishna and got workers to make it strong that it wont shake a bit for next 100 years.

Krishna then took him to a poor man's hut in that village and asked for shelter that day. 

He not only gave his own hut but also brought some fruits for them that night.

His only means of living was a cow.

Arjuna was happy about the hospitality. 

The next day when everyone were sleeping, Krishna took Arjuna to that cow and touched it with his hands. 

The cow died the next second.

Arjuna and Krishna went back to the palace. 

Arjuna then said to Krishna "This is your way of thinking. ??

Helping that rich man who was arrogant and mean but killing the only means of living of that poor man who was so kind and good"

Krishna replied with a smile :
Its what I said. You never know my ways.
That building I asked that rich man to renovate had hidden treasure from a king. 

If it had fallen, he would have got the treasure which lasts for next hundred years.

Now it stays under the building for the same time.

The fate was that a death must occur in that poor mans life. 

There are just him,his wife, his only son and a cow. I decided to take his cow in place of his family.

Arjuna now got to know the mysterious ways in which god thinks and decided never again to question what he gets in his life...

Now again My thought went on the same to be and not to be form and asked myself that We also have ample of Questions Are we Different from the Character of Arjuna ?? if not then yes I will get my Krishna for sure whenever I require {form may be anything} but I have to keep faith on him, that he has better plans for me so, I must think on what plans he might have when I ask "Why Me??" may be I will also say "Try Me"...

To be or Not To be...

Last night my friend gave me a call and asked, “Since last so many days you have not updated your blog, I was waiting that if you can put some stories or incidence”. Yeah, true since so long was not able to write anything. Not because I cannot read or write now a days or I got fed up of doing it. Nope, it’s nothing like that. When a person writes or pen down any thought of that person on a piece of paper he usually wish to be free from all unnecessary thoughts. It is not because he is a writer or philosopher but just because to be true to his pen. Anyways let’s not enter in to philosophy part. I was actually dealing with the so many questions due to which I was unable to give answer to myself. My situation was like Hamlet. !! Sorry I am not, but the main phrase I have gone through was “to be or not to be”. 

Now what does this mean? It is an usual form of life that everyone faces. No one in this world is untouched from this phenomenon.  It is not only me but every one of us enters in the role of Hamlet in one or the other phrase of life. Here we enter in to the difficult problem where we become unable to decide to be or not to be. Why to go so long? We have a superb example in our puranas as well. Don’t you remember Arjuna {Parth} of Mahabharata, we call reason for the creation of Bhagvat Geeta! He was the one who fell into this situation of To be or Not to be, and here we are equipped with the holy answer “Geeta” for all our problems from management to strategy, from life to corporate and what not. So, the question and state of Hamlet of Arjuna evoke Lord Shrikrishna to recite Geeta to Arjuna. Here Arjuna is a representative of all of us. Cause we are the only person who always require answer for something or other. But , we all will get our personalized Krishna is not necessary. 

How strange it is, a simple mark “?” has so much to stop …. Isn’t it ? but a symbol which has no separate identity, has so much of strength to change the world and minds of a human being and their identities. But somehow it is important that we must fell in to this situation. It is said, “It is ok if do not have any answer but it is not ok if do not have any question, this will lead to the end of the story ”. If you are asking questions it means you are alive and have strength in your existence. These questions may be anything and related to anybody but will support to your livelihood. Once we enter in to the role of the Arjuna we will surely get our Krishna {Krishna can be any person, situation, location, animal or anything}. Situation is the same just an era is changed. So what?!!