Value or Verbal V.....

Every time when you are at home, sitting alone and thinking about what you got... wait.... what you got means... in your life till date!!! Actually, it happens with every body... not only to the people with experience but the kids with no experience.... I mean life experiences, they also say and think about what we did till date.

Now, here comes the question... whether I am talking about serious thought process or just reviving the memories???

More or less it is re lightning the memories whether they are good or .....:) what I observed is.. Everybody has a story of a struggle. ..

Really... I am very serious on this part... one of my friend always used to say that..."Mrunal, everyone has a Story of a struggle. .  Everyone on this earth has his own story of struggle.. and if you conduct a survey on random basis then the analysis will be, 97% people will say that they have gone through the struggle"...

Its really true... anyways but the major truth is, if you are living on this planet earth, means something or other you have to face.

One of my old friend always told me.. old means ... aged..@@ :-) god graces his soul... but I remember his words... " you have to be active all the time till you go on death bed.. not like Bhishma Pitamah.. but yes.. there must be something with you which you can share with your next gen... otherwise they will keep u aside like a dustbin".. @@@

What a thought boss??!!! Yes there must have to be something to share.. but not like a Verbal Wommet..!! No one will accept... share your stories but according to the situation cause no one in this world is interested in your past...

But if you can give or add something then yes people are there to spend millions $$$$ on it. If you don't believe ...go and ask the retired higher authorities and specially too from Government. @@ I am not talking about Respected Politicians... please consider%%

Anyhow whatever your past may be but it should promise the people to give value to whom you are sharing that... it should confirm that yes ## it will add value to whatever they are doing@@ will give something to them, to the personality, to the thinking, though tprocess of the listener. 

Otherwise it will be nothing but a Verbal Vomit ... specially of a frustration and seems like you are taking a revenge of the listeners for his past sins. 

May be I am wrong but yes it is observed that such situations usually takes place and people feel that due to age or due to feeling of jealousy, others are going away from me. Believe it is nothing like that.. try recording it with an assumption that someone is listening and then replay it for yourself. . Do it as much as you can.. some way or other it will add something... it is not for to keep anybody silent or mum....Please Please Please do not become so that people will call you.......... sorry cannot name. But mauni baba is not expected... nor any other... 

Do something different what you have got and is ready to give to other. Straight and clear point is, no one is really interested in what you have gone through or faced in your life. But yeah.. what you can give is the point of interest. 

Yes your struggle is worth respecting. . Hats off to it... keep it worth..

Life Main Kabhi Kabhi....

Have seen one of my photo album yesterday.. accidently.. !!! It took me somewhere... Let me explain.. Visited a wonderful place near Ujjain,M.P. India.. In the year I guess 2009... As I am sometimes philosopher and sometimes@@@@ .... Ha ha.. anyways.. There I met one aunty.. I remember it was a place of bhairavnath temple.. superb story and different interesting history... anyways.. let's talk about aunty.. as my mami and cousins were busy somewhere I was standing with a guide sort of uncle actually he was not.. but as he was giving information so gave this name to him.. he was explaining the things of why and how.. and aunty was observing me while I was discussing it with him... then don't know whether she thought I am a researcher or interesting or intelligent creature or what?? But she started chatting with me.. many things we have discussed and she told a bit about her life as well. While sharing how she developed the hobby of visiting various place she has glow on her wrinkled face.. can you imagine a lady with a back and knee problem happily visiting number of places including foreign tours...@@
In Marathi we normally hear comments on such like, अती ईचक आहे..@@ .. and in Hindi, बहुत देसी घी है boss... But I loved the concept that aunty shared... she was from Delhi and of at the age around 63 or 65..  this also i came to know when she said that she is retired from Central Government. Would love to meet her again..:-).. but yes must say this is the approach which we can accept..
I really liked that lady.. and honestly after meeting her the approach towards travelling changed... to tell you but after that experience I have started observing people while travelling.. then somewhere I read in sanskrit sloka that if you travel and meet people as much as you can it adds positive dimension to your personality.
If  I am travelling I expect that I must meet good people and they should accept my visit. Then why not I should welcome visitors who come to see my place... sorry sorry I guess I am leaving the track@@ ;-)

Normally as a living creature of almighty we believe that love is in the air.. people here in this world not only in India treat their guests as god but everywhere.. Specially god with extra benefits ;-)... Treating guests as a god culture is called a Atithi Devo Bhava in India.. and can be called Ati Devo Bhavah.. in other sense ;-).. bad joke..$$@#
Each and every place is divine and full of soul in it, so that the places of hosts.. Anyways but to come on point... We usually believe that people might treat you wrong but not these places. Places which have various stories to share with us..
Every place every sight has its own story to tell about and discuss on.
Thoughts are generated here and those thoughts became the life to live for.
That aunty was quite old, people might take pranks on it... but this approach is worth appreciating.
Each place has it's own versatility and can only experienced through the personal visit to such places and by meeting people there. Many times we come across to such situations after which we say.. Life main Kabhi Kabhi Iski Bhi Jarurat Padti hai...

Person who leaves in this world he had to go through many different situations. These situations may include number of experiences.... "Make everyone happy, but start from yourself" this I once heard from my old friend. That will be possible in only case.. that too when we will start being ourself...

Life me kabhi kabhi ajeeb situations will happen but those are not lasting... but only thing will.. the place.. so why not to start creating Life me Kabhi Kabhi Moment with a venue of the same..  so that I or we may can share that with gens to come ;-)

It Happens.....

Yesterday visited Dp... it is an area in Nagpur. It reminds me about an incidence. .. in one chilling summer evening (2013) I was with my family and friends at DharamPeth. On an honest note, Dharampeth is actually an addiction for the people who stay at this area and an attraction for those who don't. In short it is one of the happening hangout places in Nagpur.
Now when happening word is there it includes all the things.... those which happens due to human or .... whatever... :-)
At this awesome happening place I was actually with my brother and cousins.  Here at this area one "Golawala" is very popular. Ice lollypop may be we call it.. I came to know this just because of one Gola Lover like me. Don't know whether it is correct or not... who cares??? I was enjoying the taste what ever the name may be... anyhow it was said what's there in a name.. :-) (may be to avoid such confusions)

As it was mentioned earlier that the place is happening one, we were also becoming a part of it. We were busy in chatting and my handsome cousins were busy in eye exercising. ;-)
Suddenly after some time a beautiful girl came with her bike. It seems bit awkward, cause being a girl I should not appriciate any girl by girl's law ;-)... but yes the girl was heavenly beautiful... fair... well toned skin.... straight hair... black and blue combination in an awesome shifon dress.. how can I miss to observe a dress... but really the girl was so beautiful that I can not miss to mention.
Think you are a handsome chunk and such a beautiful girl passes through. ... what will be your reaction... specially if she in trouble with her bike... oh poor girl :-( !!. Like a responsible citizen and with a huge heart of handsome guys, the chunks felt very bad for her.. and offered their hands of help to the beautiful girl.
Why would she refuse???!! If a boy is good looking and handsome...!! she was ok with the offer of help and shook her head in consent. Now the real exercise took place at the part of guys... They tilted the bike.. tried starting it with run up... had in depth discussion on plug an all..
That girl was keenly observing all these circus.... finally..like us May be she also got irritated... and with a great regret she broke her silence... " मले वाटते पेट्रोल संपलं असन"....!!

Finished@@@@ story over#@@
Attraction lost... &&&
Guys were in shock like anything.... we three seating on stairs and observing all this.. were bursted in laugh... it was uncontrollable...

Somehow guys recovered from shock.... but they were speechless... they said only one thing...  actually adviced.. Dekho Madam Samne Petrol Pump Hai.... Aap Jao.. Waha mil Jayenga aap ko Petrol... please....

It was a funny incidence for lifetime... whenever we think of it we at least smile on it...
But lot many things can be observed and learnt from it...
Lot many things can be discussed...

With a smile on your face... you also think about what I am trying to put in front and intiating a disscussion @... let me know... we will discuss it...

Is there any Rope ???

We think that we think and when we think we come to know that even after thinking a lot we are actually not thinking anything fruitful, and hurts.

Yups @@@ !!!! it’s true that hurts… You know what actually hurts??!! Only one thing that after hell lot of thinking process we are not ending up with any result.

Then what will give us the result??!!

The only thing might help, sorry to mention but I think that if we start thinking in right way, we will for sure get the results.

I love to read the stories and every new day such stories helps in one way or other. If not help then at least lefts thought provoking process behind. Whomsoever these stories may belong to but has message in them and one must read at least a story in a week.

Anyways let me share one thing, we actually supposed to discuss the matter og thinking. You know why we need to stress on thinking?? Cause each and every process of our life starts with thinking only. It is said that what we think we act on it and behavior changes accordingly, and a day come it becomes our habit and part of our personality.

Let me share a story which I came across last month. The story goes like this…

As a man was passing the elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front leg. No chains, no cages. It was obvious that the elephants could, at anytime, break away from their bonds but for some reason, they did not.

He saw a trainer nearby and asked why these animals just stood there and made no attempt to get away. “Well,” trainer said, “when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them and, at that age, it’s enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free.”

The man was amazed. These animals could at any time break free from their bonds but because they believed they couldn’t, they were stuck right where they were.

Like the elephants, how many of us go through life hanging onto a belief that we cannot do something, simply because we failed at it once before?

If we just give one chance to our thought that Yes I can do it !!! and I want to do it they ways comes out.

If we think from different direction to this story we will be able to get various dimensions. Sometimes such ropes are because of love and affections. But such love and affections are different. Here we are focusing mainly on what we can do but we don’t know or don’t want to know that we can do it.

One can do anything if that person really, really … want to do it. Only one thing stops, and that one thing is, thinking that I cannot do it.. and once we say that I cannot do it or was failed before in it… then no one can encourage or boost you to do anything good.

When we talk about good, that good is doing good to our thoughts, our thinking first.

Once we are confirmed that again with the thinking that I want and I can do it, no one can stop you by getting whatever you want.

Just Hope for the best and always attempt good, you will see the difference in performance and life too. Then whatever it may be life, love, profession or whatever, just your thinking is important and that too in right direction.